Reporting to the FinDom I Chose (Podcast)
Plus: declined cards, banned words on porn sites, and a reading from my new book, Around the World, Locked
House Slave Fag opens with a musings segment about findom and Master control_twink, the new FinDom he started sending to after a few days of cum denial left him too horny to resist. To give Master control_twink something to push on, he rebuilt a progress monitor for his goals in job hunting, his content platforms, porn, and fitness. Then his credit cards start getting declined, and he takes on the financial sector's discomfort with sex, his official complaint against Grindr, and the hoops and banned words at OnlyFans and JustFor.Fans.
He also shares some of his travel plans for the end of the year and the books in the works, including The FinDom I Chose. He closes by reading the introduction to Around the World, Locked: Volume One, the third book in his blog anthology.
Topics in this episode:
- Master control_twink and My Progress Monitor (00:57)
- Declined Cards and Financial Cockblocking (04:29)
- A New Master, Grindr, and Porn Platform Rules (07:48)
- Travel Plans and the Books in the Works (10:46)
- Introduction to Around the World, Locked: Volume One (13:26)
Blog posts mentioned in this episode:
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Books mentioned in this episode:
- Around the World, Locked: Volume One: books2read.com/subjourney3
- Becoming a Slave: books2read.com/subjourney1
- My Master & Me: books2read.com/subjourney2
- All my books, including Submitting to Master Macho: books2read.com/HSF
- Tranced & Transformed is sold directly: HouseSlaveFag@gmail.com
Tribute: Throne.com/HouseSlaveFag or subs.com/HouseSlaveFag. Message me on X at @HSFaggot.
I'm a FinSwitch. I know how fun getting drained can be. So don't hesitate to reach out if that's what you're after. You'll get to submit to someone who knows exactly how findom is exciting and is focused on your pleasure.
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Transcript
Hi there,
Welcome to another episode of "A Fag's Journey into Submission." I am your host, House Slave Fag.
This episode opens with a musings segment — the kind I usually keep for premium subscribers. I'll tell you about Master control_twink, the FinDom I started sending to, and the progress monitor I built so he can push me to earn more for him. Then my credit cards get declined, and I get into why payment companies and porn platforms make it so hard to make money from sex. As usual, I'll share a little more about my plans for the coming months, including who I'm planning to submit to, and what I might write about. At the end, I'll read you the introduction to my new book, Around the World, Locked: Volume 1, which is in stores now.
Enjoy.
Master control_twink and My Progress Monitor
I’ve been busy, but not enough of it was sex. I guess I should’ve cum less if I wanted to stay horny enough not to skip the sauna and cruising bar. I just didn’t want the stress I get out of cum denial. Not to mention that it gapes my cash hole open. The more horny I am, the more I’m susceptible to getting cashfucked. After all, that is sex too and it gives me pleasure and relief.
I'd rather cool down and save some money, but being in the findom zone is also a good moment to drain other finsubs. I share the same mental space and I know what the subs need. I know how fun getting drained can be and finsubs can count on me for that, because being a pleaser, I'm focused on their pleasure. If you feel like you need it now, get into my Throne, or better yet, my subs.com website and start with a small tribute. Then you can message me on subs or on X at @HSFaggot.
While I’m on the topic of findom and cum denial, that’s how I got interested in Master control_twink. I was just too horny after not cumming for a few days. So much that I already published three chapters. Don’t worry, if you prefer to listen to me reading them for you, I’ll do that soon too. Otherwise, feel free to subscribe to my blog for free at HouseSlaveFag.com.
I have already sent to Master control_twink $64. I know that’s not a lot but it’s not nothing either. A more significant step I’ve taken was to recreate the monitoring database of my progress on goals in four main areas that can lead to more income for him, as he expressed interest in motivating me toward that end. That's in job hunting, restructuring the platforms for my content for better monetization, doing porn, and advancing on my fitness.
I know the monitoring dashboard hasn’t worked great for me before, or at least it was more based on my self-motivation than on any feedback from my Owner or from the Dangerous FinDom who I reported to at the time. Because I didn’t get feedback from either of them. But if Master control_twink is different and more interested in that way of mindfucking me and increasing the income I can leak for him — that can matter a lot.
The fitness part is the one on which I've been doing especially well by being very specific about the objectives I measure. That was also the one area in which my Owner was more interested in checking in every now and then to report on progress. I'm using an app for measuring that and it holds me accountable.
The progress monitor is much more robust this time, thanks to the use of AI. It includes much more automation to feed more information on my progress into the database, but I still need to engage with it a lot. I hope it will be sustainable, as my fitness app has been, even though this requires me to micro-manage myself heavily.
For this to work, I think I’ll still need Master control_twink to zoom out and not to micromanage me in the same way I can tolerate from myself. It can help if he sees the big picture and points out where I’m losing focus or not investing enough effort. He could help me with setting priorities as long as they don’t seem off from what I have in mind.
I got a kick out of creating this progress monitor, but I was not moved enough to send to him this morning, as I haven’t made any substantial change yet that would let me generate more income, apart from creating the monitor. Getting more tributes might nudge me into draining more for him.
Declined Cards and Financial Cockblocking
I'm coming back to this episode after another day went by and — this morning I thought I might send to Master control_twink after all. I was reluctant, because the credit card I wanted to use was declined the other day, and unfortunately, the bank couldn't explain that decline because they didn't see it on their end. I tried it again and it was still declined. So I tried another card, which worked the other day, but now this one was declined too, even though it was not even from the same bank.
I was not surprised by all this, knowing how the financial sector doesn't like sex. The dominant payment gateway Stripe is particularly opposed to adult content. Credit companies are at fault too. A part of it is trying to avoid chargebacks, that are especially common with a product that is so taboo. Like a husband may cancel a payment to a porn website after telling his wife he must have had his credit card details stolen. Same for a finsub who feels distressed about getting drained so deep, and tries to tell the credit card company he was tricked into it. All that said, I suspect there's more conservative politics involved.
There are so many market failures in this industry, that it's tempting to go all in and try to solve them and make a lot of money, but I'm sure it's not easy. Though I'd love to have much more agency than what this industry gives me as a solo content creator.
I guess that's all the more reason to move forward with the transition of all my content to be self-hosted. Now I'm also accountable toward Master control_twink to get it done. Because hopefully that will release some of the blocks preventing me from monetizing better. I just need to push ahead and do it, one weekend at a time.
In the meantime I opened a ticket with Throne's customer service about my issue. Isn't it amusing that after several hours I got excited when I saw that my ticket has finally been seen by a staff member? I'm not even optimistic that they'd manage to solve the problem, but I can't help hoping a little bit. I feel the need to send to Master control_twink. And by the time I'm due for my weekly progress report on Friday, I'll probably be even more excited.
Fast forward to a couple of hours later, and I was able to send to him after all. I have an idea why that may have happened. Perhaps the cart didn't fully clear the credit card information from the last time I added a gift without sending it right away — so when I tried to send again later with a different card, there was a mismatch. But that's just a guess. We'll see next time I'm ready to send.
Pardon me for getting so logistical. But financial cockblocking is as frustrating as any cockblocking. For the moment I am calmer, but I might need to send again by the end of the week. That said, I am going to try to be a little more prudent with my sending. As any finsub might say... I just went over my finances, and they don't look good.
I need this progress monitoring to work, because I have to get more income fast. So I really shouldn't send unless any of my finsubs are sending me more. But I better make much more — from finsubs, from my jobhunt, and from changes to my website. So much to do, and being horny is not helping!
A New Master, Grindr, and Porn Platform Rules
One thing that just might help me is meeting a new Master after we've been chatting online for the last few weeks while I was in Vienna. I haven't met him yet, but he's supposed to arrive in my home town soon, and that's where I'll stay over the next two months.
How will meeting him help, you ask? Well, first of all, I hope he will help with my horniness. Because as I've told you before, it's always harder for me to find sex in my home town, especially since I'm still avoiding going cruising here, unlike in other places I visit as a tourist, where not many people know me. It also got so much harder to find hookups since Grindr closed my account.
It will probably take months until I hear about the complaint I lodged against the company through the European authorities. The termination of my account without even telling me why is a gross injustice, but this company has even bigger problems, that I'm slightly tempted to explore the possibility of taking them to court. The amount of private information they keep on their millions of users is insane, while European authorities require it to be "proportional". Alternatively, I could write a book about that and have it sold to a movie studio for a fortune. For sure.
I think a book about dating apps would have to involve a lot of sex. And that reminds me of the other problem I hope the new Master I'm meeting might help with. He can help me shoot porn, and maybe that will produce some income. Or — perhaps more likely — it may just help more people find me and discover my books and premium podcast.
I'm having a hard time registering as a creator on OnlyFans because they're hostile to digital nomads, asking me for weird documents like bills for a landline or electricity. Why would I have those things? But that's probably for the best, because apparently they're much more restrictive about kinks and have a very long list of banned words.
So I'm looking into JustFor.Fans. Registering as a creator is quite a hassle there too, requiring five porn videos of at least three minutes. I never recorded anything for more than two minutes. So those first five clips can't be very interesting if I'm a total amateur with no equipment, no one I know to collab with, and a lot of limitations from my Master and due to my need for total privacy.
It also turns out I can't post videos there in which I drink piss or get pissed on. And would you have ever guessed that you can't say the word meeting there? So if two creators meet to film, they're supposed to avoid that word in the post. And to think that JustFor.Fans is supposed to be a more liberal website created by sex workers for sex workers. But hey, what do I know. I'm just a horny fag, wanting to get more dick, and more exposure for my stories.
Travel Plans and the Books in the Works
I finally booked the flights and accommodation for my travels toward the end of the year. I'll be meeting my Owner again, hopefully get some job interviews and new professional introductions, and I might just meet Master Macho again, if he shows up when I arrive in Mexico City.
So I think I'll hold off on writing Volume 2 of Submitting to Master Macho, and just wait and see what happens in our real encounter. In the meantime I'll keep focusing on my other books in the series from my blog. I'll read for you the introduction to Book 3 in a minute. I aim to publish Book 4 and Book 5 by the end of the year.
And now there's another book in the works: The FinDom I Chose. Those following my blog have read its first chapters, and I'll share them on the podcast very soon too. That's all about Master control_twink, unless I end up exploring in that book fantasies with other FinDoms too. I also want to show you my own FinDom side there, and remind readers of more reasons to send tributes to me. I think it's going to be fun to explore that side, though it might be a challenge to alternate between the FinDom and finsub roles from one chapter to another. Then again, that's who I am in real life — a FinSwitch.
Going back to the series of Submitting to Master Macho, there's something else worth mentioning about it here. That story includes one kink that is problematic for some platforms, though it hasn't been a problem for the bookstores. Or at least not for a large enough number of them. That's not the sissification part. It's the pimping out. I can sell that book, but apparently I can't talk about pimping out on subs.com, for example.
I have the same problem in the story Tranced & Transformed. But there I have a bigger issue, and that's the hypno scenes. I've been toying with the idea of revisiting some of my hypno scenes to try to sanitize them for the puritans. I might be able to do that for the few chapters in the story Collared, that come right after Volume 1. I would always be able to sell the hypno scenes directly, in private, but I'd really like to still share those stories with a wider audience, even without hypno. It was so fun to explore the fantasies of sissification and pimping out, and I'm not done!
Anyway, I'll add those projects to the long list of things to explore. But now, I'm proud to present to you the introduction from my latest book. It's available in stores and I'll leave the link in the show notes. So I'll say goodbye now and I hope you enjoy this preview.
Until next time, be well, be good, and have fun.
Introduction to Around the World, Locked: Volume 1
I am a digital nomad. I travel all the time, working from my laptop. Most of the time I get to choose where I want to work from, and honestly, sex plays no small part in my choices. Of course it’s not the only factor, nor does it mean I fuck around every day. But there are a few cities where I know I’ll have a good time. Berlin and New York are the obvious ones, with so many gays and diverse scenes. But I also appreciate the smaller Vienna, where I could feel comfortable showing my chastity cage at the kinky Hard On bar, when I was not yet used to it. And then there’s Mexico City, where there are plenty of macho men. Maspalomas in Gran Canaria is another favorite and its Fetish Pride is just the time for any kinky guy to visit.
I get to travel with my Master quite a bit, especially since I started joining him on the gay cruises he loves. He travels more than anyone I know, except me. But since he also has to be at his office, most of the time I’m traveling by myself, controlled by him remotely. Being locked is one way he controls me from afar, but there are other rules.
Chastity is actually the easy part. Or at least it became easier once I got used to it. I began experimenting with it before he started showing interest in it. Then he decided I should be locked during work hours, so I’d be more focused on my work. Locktober took me deeper and my Master helped me not drown. Eventually he let me cum rather than continue into November, as he saw that locking for too long stressed me out. He preferred that I be calm.
The mindfuck from cum denial was what made me want to reveal myself more, including through porn, and led me to go lower in my chapter on “Watersports Training.” It also made me more vulnerable to a FinDom, but I’ll elaborate on my draining in my fifth book, Losing Control. My Master also enjoyed seeing me more eager and submissive, so he started requiring that I avoid cumming in the weeks leading up to our meetings. At some point he also decided that I should no longer present myself unlocked to other men, whether on a hookup, or in any cruising bar, sauna, or sex club, even if it wasn’t a kinky place. That rule stayed, while the other rules about chastity have been relaxed by now, but this book covers the early period in my chastity training.
There are other rules that dictated my engagement with men on my travels and they still do. One is playing safe. That means condoms, in addition to taking PrEP and even DoxyPEP, to be sure I’m more protected. He’s the only one who breeds me. The other rule is that anyone I want to meet in private has to agree to share his face picture and dick picture with my Master for screening. They have to be up to his standards, or it would reflect badly on him. He also considers it a safety measure for my benefit, because you can’t really be too safe when hooking up with a stranger.
All these requirements add up, so that I can hook up with probably less than half of the guys I’d like to, maybe even much less. The chastity is the least of their concerns, although I’ve had guys refuse because they wanted to play with my cock. But obviously not everyone is ready to share their pictures with someone they haven’t talked to, and some don’t like it because they see it as an act of submission. There are also those who want to meet completely anonymously, but I would never feel safe doing that anyway, and I also wouldn’t find it worth my time. I am a picky fag after all, despite my fantasy of being whored out. And nowadays, with the availability of PrEP, of course I also get rejected by guys who are only looking to bareback. Oh, and then there are those who simply don’t pass my Master’s filter. Once on a cruise I was especially disappointed when he didn’t let me play with a stunning super muscular guy, who I thought was the hottest guy on the dance floor. The compromises I make for my Master’s ownership!
Still, one Master is not enough. Don’t get me wrong. I’m very loyal to my Master and always follow his rules. But I’m a slut and I want more men to use me. Plus, every Master is different in looks and domination style. For example, the Bull from Philadelphia is Black and more muscular. You’ll find him in the last series in this book. Another difference is that the Bull wanted to sissify me and Master Macho from Mexico wanted to pimp me out (see the chapter “Being Slutted Out in a Mexican Club”). More recently I learned that each of them would like to take me deeper in both kinks. I’m not experienced in them, though they’ve occupied my fantasies, which I’ve written into the books featuring those Masters, titled Tranced & Transformed — available only by contacting me directly — and Submitting to Master Macho. The contact details are in the show notes.
Unlike those stories, this book continues my non-fiction blog anthology. So if you happened to find this book in the fiction section of the bookstore, don’t be fooled. It’s just an industry rule that erotica must be fiction. Let that be a reminder of how special this anthology is, that it presents real-life experiences. Five books, because two more will follow: Around the World, Locked: Volume 2 and Losing Control. With all that said, consider this a heads up that there are a few places depicting fiction, where I couldn’t help myself and had to share my hopes and dreams of what could have happened. Namely, those are the chapters “Fantasizing about My Next Gay Cruise” and “Cruising without Limits,” as well as one scene out of my trip to Philadelphia.
I know there’s a real contradiction between those bold fantasies and how I’m actually quite picky about the men I’m willing to play with. I’m only liberal with my Master really, trying not to refuse anyone he invites to a threesome. But I’m actually not a cumdump and there was only one time I bottomed for someone I wouldn’t have if it weren’t for another Master pimping me out. In that case it was Master Macho, who has far greater plans for me. Otherwise, my control is practically self-administered. I’m expected to follow my Master’s orders from afar, or a FinDom’s urging to send him money online. But aside from the occasional uncontrollable mindfuck, it is up to me to choose if I want to submit.
As I explore different kinks, you may notice my limits moving. This book covers a year and a half, and I’m publishing it more than a year after all of this took place. You’ll get closer to present day if you continue to the next volume. The first book introduced my story to you: Becoming a Slave. The second introduced my Master: My Master & Me. In this third book and in Around the World, Locked: Volume 2 you get to see my journey into submission through my travels and over time, as they are told in the order I originally published them, each chapter a blog post written soon after the events took place.
I’m sharing with you such a fun journey throughout these five books, with more and more exhibitionism, chastity, watersports, findom, and plain cocksucking and bottoming. I owe a big thanks to you, because wanting to have something new to share with you every week has made me push myself to go out and play, even when it was rainy, I was tired, or the mood didn’t strike. And when I did go out, the appetite for more sex and greater submission usually followed. So I’m grateful to you and to all the men who used me. These are my stories. Enjoy.
